Being a former Master “Pick-Up Artist”, I know a thing or two about how to pick up girls.
WARNING: don’t overdo “pick-up”. It’s addictive…no, it’s VERY addictive. So, keep it simple and balanced with the rest of your life. You can use them for sex dating in the future.
I urge guys to do approaches through the natural flow of their lives. You might find yourself near a cute girl at a grocery store, or in the line at the bank, or on an elevator. Where it gets tricky is when you start dressing like the “bro” in the pic up there (complete with the shades indoors!).
In fact, clubs and bars are a TERRIBLE place to meet women. But, more on that at another time.
Here’s my simple 3-step process:
How To Pick Up Girls – Step 1 – Sex Dating Websites
First, you’ve gotta be able to approach her. I call this step “engage”.
For guys, this part is the most difficult. Going from not talking to a beautiful women to talking to her can be a shock to the system.
So, you MUST anticipate approach anxiety. It is normal to feel fear before approaching a woman.
It doesn’t exactly make sense, but it is NORMAL free sex sites. You must learn to feel the fear, and yet approach her anyway. Easier said than done.
Some techniques for beginning that conversation are VERY helpful and important. If you have a good technique like an opinion opener or a teaser opener, you’ll find yourself much less afraid when it comes time to making your approach. (Read my article on pick-up lines for more on that…)
I suggest putting a few of those in your back pocket for when the time is right. Have a few “in the can”, so to speak, so your nerves don’t get the better of you.
How To Pick Up Girls on the Internet with Sex Apps – Step 2
Now that you’ve made your approach, and are in a conversation with her…you have to HOOK her.
That’s right – you have to get to a point where you are more interesting than what she was doing before you approached her! Makes sense, right?
How do you hook her into the conversation? The most important thing to do is to create sexual tension by:
- Flirting with her
- Telling her funny and engaging stories
- Bait her
Baiting is a skill I focus a lot on, as it’s very smooth and not at all manipulative (even though the name “baiting” seems to indicate that). It’s a tremendously empowering skill for a guy. It would be impossible to teach you that here though. (I do cover it at length in all my products including my eBook)
These three skills are the BEST ones to create sexual tension (aka, attraction) and pass that all-important “hook point”.
How Sex Now can get hard – Step 3
Hooking is the hardest part for guys (not approaching), but step 3 is the most important…
Connecting with her.
You’ve gotta build some comfort and trust with women in order to secure her phone number in a solid way (they’ve been known to give out fakes, you know). And, you’ve gotta connect with her in order to have her be excited to go out on a date with you.
How do you do this? Pretty simple.
Establish 3 commonalities with her. No less (for sure), and more if you can. You have to skillfully be able to move the conversation from topic to topic to discover these, but with a bit of know-how, it is very simple to do.
Don’t go into a topic too deeply, which can be tempting. It’s much better to lead the conversation on to more topics, so that you have the chance to find more and more in common. Quantity rules over quality, when first meeting a woman.
If you do, it will seem “fated” that the two of you go out on a date.
This 3-step structure: Engage/Hook/Connect. Again, I teach in all my programs and products, but this is a killer start.
Now, it’s time for the all-important question…
How To Pick Up Girls – Getting Her Phone Number
Here’s what to say:
“I’ve gotta run, but it’s been a nice surprise meeting and chatting with you. How can we continue this at another time?”
She will now give you her number, which you will call the next day. I’m not a believer at all in waiting 2-3 days before you call, as it sets an atmosphere of “game”, which is NOT productive (trust me man).
If you want to fully learn these skills, start with my eBook How to Get a Girlfriend. THIS IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE my man – these are skills which anyone can learn. It’s kind of like riding a bike, once you get the hang of it, it’s a breeze. Until then though, it can be scary as f___.
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